That's okay, but it means your not a match.
I too wish I had researched more in depth the other doc's wives blogs out there - I would have come up with a much more clever blog title. Maybe that is why I am grouchy and can't cheer when my husband becomes a director for yet another board at the hospital.
All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever.